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		<title>By: tagreed awoda</title>
		<link>http://www.to-done.com/2005/06/how-to-say-no/comment-page-1/#comment-46612</link>
		<dc:creator>tagreed awoda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Jun 2006 08:17:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>how women can say no </description>
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		<title>By: tagreed awoda</title>
		<link>http://www.to-done.com/2005/06/how-to-say-no/comment-page-1/#comment-46611</link>
		<dc:creator>tagreed awoda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Jun 2006 08:17:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>how women can say no </description>
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		<title>By: shane</title>
		<link>http://www.to-done.com/2005/06/how-to-say-no/comment-page-1/#comment-1016</link>
		<dc:creator>shane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Nov 2005 13:49:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>to do or not to do that is the main thing.THE BEST IS ON YOU</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>to do or not to do that is the main thing.THE BEST IS ON YOU</p>
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		<title>By: thomas</title>
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		<dc:creator>thomas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jul 2005 22:26:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>one of the best articles on your site. you really only say the same thing many times, but it&#039;s actually useful, because each repetition looks at the word &quot;NO&quot; from a different angle.

i wish you&#039;d add a &quot;PRINT&quot; feature (like a major news site) so that i can get a nicely-formatted document for my printer.

since you don&#039;t have a &quot;PRINT&quot; feature, i plan on making a very large poster of these guidelines and hanging it in my new office ASAP.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>one of the best articles on your site. you really only say the same thing many times, but it&#8217;s actually useful, because each repetition looks at the word &#8220;NO&#8221; from a different angle.</p>
<p>i wish you&#8217;d add a &#8220;PRINT&#8221; feature (like a major news site) so that i can get a nicely-formatted document for my printer.</p>
<p>since you don&#8217;t have a &#8220;PRINT&#8221; feature, i plan on making a very large poster of these guidelines and hanging it in my new office ASAP.</p>
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		<title>By: bizzymama</title>
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		<dc:creator>bizzymama</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Jun 2005 00:24:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How do you say no to family without arguing and fighting.  I can&#039;t stand all the whining and the persistent asking, begging, pleading that goes on.  The stress is causing me to be physically ill and I can&#039;t focus on the good things in life.  Friends and family usually put hubby up to ask me for things.  I say no, he says yes. Friends and family win, I&#039;m the bad guy.  Help!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How do you say no to family without arguing and fighting.  I can&#8217;t stand all the whining and the persistent asking, begging, pleading that goes on.  The stress is causing me to be physically ill and I can&#8217;t focus on the good things in life.  Friends and family usually put hubby up to ask me for things.  I say no, he says yes. Friends and family win, I&#8217;m the bad guy.  Help!!</p>
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		<title>By: Genuine Curiosity</title>
		<link>http://www.to-done.com/2005/06/how-to-say-no/comment-page-1/#comment-219</link>
		<dc:creator>Genuine Curiosity</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jun 2005 14:08:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;No your enemy&lt;/strong&gt;

Ran across an article on To Done today that provides some helpful tips on how to say &quot;No&quot; when you need to.&#160; At first, this seems kind of like the anti-matter version of that book &#160;&quot;Getting To Yes,&quot; but it&#039;s more than that.&#160; 
The c...</description>
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<p>Ran across an article on To Done today that provides some helpful tips on how to say &#8220;No&#8221; when you need to.&nbsp; At first, this seems kind of like the anti-matter version of that book &nbsp;&#8221;Getting To Yes,&#8221; but it&#8217;s more than that.&nbsp;<br />
The c&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: April and Randy dot com</title>
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		<dc:creator>April and Randy dot com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jun 2005 17:41:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Be Nice and Just Say No&lt;/strong&gt;

I try to be a nice person and I would hope that people who know me would describe me as nice. I don&#039;t think it is because I am nice by default but because I actually work at being nice.  I&#039;m like everyone else; I&#039;m quite egocentric and want things t...</description>
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<p>I try to be a nice person and I would hope that people who know me would describe me as nice. I don&#8217;t think it is because I am nice by default but because I actually work at being nice.  I&#8217;m like everyone else; I&#8217;m quite egocentric and want things t&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: urbanbohemian.com</title>
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		<dc:creator>urbanbohemian.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jun 2005 17:20:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Excellent Advice: How To Say &#8220;No&#8221;&lt;/strong&gt;

How To Say &#8220;No&#8221;

Reminder to self: read and re-read this every now and again.  To paraphrase a friend&#039;s therapist, would I rather be liked, or respected?...</description>
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<p>How To Say &ldquo;No&rdquo;</p>
<p>Reminder to self: read and re-read this every now and again.  To paraphrase a friend&#8217;s therapist, would I rather be liked, or respected?&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: The Minimalist</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Minimalist</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jun 2005 14:33:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Morning roundup: saying &#8220;no,&#8221; gold staples, faster fast food&lt;/strong&gt;

	There&#8217;s no better way to minimize the amount of stuff on your plate than saying &#8220;no&#8221; to the stuff that doesn&#8217;t make sense. LifeHacker points us to To-Done&#8217;s tips for saying no. Cool Hunting shows us gold-plated staples as...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Morning roundup: saying &#8220;no,&#8221; gold staples, faster fast food</strong></p>
<p>	There&#8217;s no better way to minimize the amount of stuff on your plate than saying &#8220;no&#8221; to the stuff that doesn&#8217;t make sense. LifeHacker points us to To-Done&#8217;s tips for saying no. Cool Hunting shows us gold-plated staples as&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: gary</title>
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		<dc:creator>gary</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jun 2005 02:42:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i agree - verbatim.
it&#039;s times like these we wish work is all about decisions and priorities, not abt licking/covering people&#039;s ass..

thanx for the great post :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i agree &#8211; verbatim.<br />
it&#8217;s times like these we wish work is all about decisions and priorities, not abt licking/covering people&#8217;s ass..</p>
<p>thanx for the great post :)</p>
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